I can relate to this because I was once a house help. If you treat your house help the way you want people to treat you ,you will bring out the best in her even if she has evil intentions. The woman l stayed with in Lagos treated me like a no body .l will wake up 5am and go to bed midnight (who born me to rest during the day)she will insult me from morning to night. She was wicked. Her hubby was so good to me and that makes her even more crazy .Today l am so blessed,l treat people with care,from that house God moved me to PARIS FRANCE and changed my life completely.When l hear news of house help killing madam,oga,kids,doing this and that etc l dont feel bad for the victims.Because l know there madam or oga ,kids ,relatives must have pushed them so hard .l was living in a masion in Lagos,everything seems perfect from the outside,the only time she treat me well is when visitors are around(pretender), her family too go jor maltreat me .l will pound yam and eat eba,l sit on the floor in her living room(her chair too fine for me🙄)l went through hell in that house. Even as a Christian l feel like harming her or her kids most of the time.Today l am 10imes better than her,and l give God all the glory for putting a golden spoon in the mouth of my kids.Treat people well,nobody knows tomorrow.